Discussions : General discussion : OK - I've hit the hump!!
nixandbuz wrote:
Hi there,
Just wondering if anyone else has been through this!
I have been doing really well with my Le Reve but last month had a shocker month with one party and held my own (which was a fairly good party). Now just this really quiet lul and feel like I am going no-where, also just had two parties cancel this week. I really want to get into having more parties and wanting to average about 2-3 parties per week.
I have had a bit of a crisis with DH (usual marital stuff) and are hopeing we are on the better end of that but its put my mind in another place and feel like I am now failing with the PP as well.
I have been reading alot of stuff on Power of Attraction and trying to get back to where I want but still in this horrible zone, can anyone help??
nixandbuz replied:
Thanx Michelle for your words of encouragement. Big (((i))) hugs to you.
I really enjoy the party plan that I am doing, love the product, have a fantastic director (upline) and the commission is great too 25% then once you sell over $1750 retail you then go up another 5% (total 30% most months) I think its moreso its just my DH is not supportive and has basically said he doesn't want me to do this. But I have stuck my feet in and said I want to do something for MYSELF! He has basically been told that I WILL do this and it makes me more determined to achieve my own goals, just his minor hiccup has put a dampner on it all, I am sure I will get through this and its just a minor hurdle.
Thanx again for your words of support.
marina replied:
It is very hard when you have not got a supportive partner, but you stick to your guns and one day he will come around. You need to show him you are making money and it is a career.
I remember when i started Peter was ok with it but did not take an active interest, until he saw the money coming in. Now I cannot keep him away and does shows on his own.
Keep at it, everyone has hurdles in party plan.. Remember if it was easy everyone would be doing it.
Look at the long term and the financial freedom it will provide you.
Good luck.
noone replied:
Nix - my DH isn't overly supportive of my PP either.... Sounds like you and I are very very similar in that we are doing this for ourselves!
I will see you tomorrow and maybe we can have a think together then as I've had a few cancellations this last week as well :)
DEBBIEANN replied:
hi hun,
listen everyone has a hiccup in business and when its topped by a personal hiccup- its gets overwhelming!.......when a lull hits your diary- get creative!!!!.......letterbox drops in a new suburb every week, new businesses eg: doctors waiting rooms, hosp waiting rooms, preschools, softplay venues, it doesnt matter where.......get your name , number & product out there!!!!.......even if you dont get parties straight away- you will get orders and new names in your mailing list, and of course the benefit of earning income while exercising and getting out in the fresh air to clear all that negative thought........2moz is a new day & a fresh start and you have nothing to lose and everything to gain..........and the icing on the cake is when business picks up and you have a little extra money im sure your DH wont find it so unpleasant to go out for a night with you from your earnings and has a taste of the benefits of your hard work! ... and let him know it !.....go out & show him hun....you are gr8 at what you do & prove him wrong!!!.....dont let anyone talk you out of doing something you enjoy that can & will improve your life!!!!!.............GO FOR IT! & LET US KNOW HOW YOU GET ON!!!, cheers