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Oh my... Still in shock
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marina wrote:
Well last night we had the booking club and would you believe my mum got called into work so did not have anyone to look after the kids. I just happened to be at my mums place.
The next door neighbour was outside and said she can look after the kids for 2 hours. I said great!
She said the mobile hairdresser was coming over at 4.30pm and would be finished around 6.30pm, so I hung around at my mums.
at about 6.20pm I popped over without the kids as the guys car was still there and I thought i could perhaps tell him about the jewellery business as he could sell it to the clients .
anyway i knock on the door and no answer. keep knocking. have a peep throught the see through glass. lights all on. I thought they were at the back rinsing the hair so could not hear me.
I tried the door handle and the door opened. I walked in and heard a scream. I instintively turned my head to the left which is the bedroom and see her stark naked trying to pull her panties on with the hairdresser fully clothed beside her.
my first words were " oh my god " and i ran out the door and closed the door behind me.
I sat down at home in shock.
A hairdresser in his 30s, and she is in her 50s ( never been married with no childen and if you know her she is very prim and proper. almost like a nun in looks and dress and behaviour.
So quickly called my mother in law to baby sit the children.
What am i going to say to this lady now? I think she will be very embarrased and I am too?
I am not telling my mum . My mum will have a heart attack if i do.
JodieR replied:
OMG!
I reckon I would drop her a note in her mail box letting her know that you would respect her privacy and not tell anyone what you saw (including your mum)? that of course is up to you... But will it taint your mothers opinion of her? If so, I wouldn't tell your mum. They have to live next door to each other and some things are better left un-said. Depends. Only you will know that.
But oh dear... what a situation to get yourself into LOL! How embarassing!
Maybe he was giving her a 'special' hair cut?
ExMember148 replied:
Oh God Marina !! Are you for real???
Maybe you could skip the jewellery catalogue and just give them both one of mine???
Now YOU know why she has the best looking hair in the street!!!
Simone replied:
That is hilarious!!!!
How embarrassing the next time you see her. Hehehe.....
SaucyKath replied:
I learnt from a very YOUNG age never to enter anyones property without them inviting you in - and of course never to try turning their door knobs either! perhaps this is why!
Al2612 replied:
Marina...that is hilarious! You shouldn't be the embarrassed one...as you were clothed in the presence of the Hairdresser!! Good point though Kath...one should always wait for the go ahead before entering!
ExMember148 replied:
Come on Kath, step outside the square, live life on the wild side. Where is the voyeur in you?? Where would we all be today if we had of waited for someone to open the door ??
Good on you Marina, there could of been a terrible accident and you may of saved the day (though in this case you didn't ) Next time you could just say to the hairdresser, do you do roots as well ?? (as in re-growth you dirty little animals!!!)
CKCath replied:
I can understand that you are in shock, but I can also imagine how your Mum's neighbor feels. She did say she would not be free till after a certain time and you called in early. I am sorry but I think it very rude to walk into someones home like that. I was taught that it is bad manners to just walk through a door into someone's private home, that you should knock and wait to be invited in.
I also think you were being inconsiderate (even if the situation had been a more "normal" haircut) to call in early to talk about the business opportunity. She had an appointment with her hairdresser for herself, not for you to try and sell him your business plan. When I am getting my hair done, I expect my hairdresser's undivided attention, not to have her talking to others while I am paying for her services.
It may have been better to wait till the planned 6.30pm that she had said she was available and and mention it then.
I am sorry if my opinion offends you, it is just my opinion. I am also sorry to hear you were upset by this experience, I hope that you are able to work through the issues and come out the other side soon.
candlelover replied:
I do have to agree with Catherine on this one. If I was having my hair cut (or other business done) in my own home and had set a time for someone else to come along, I would not appreciate them turning up early to spruik their business. If she said she would be ready at 6.30, I would have turned up at 6.30 and not before. I don't like people turning up early at my home when I've made a time for them to come around so I wouldn't appreciate it happening to me. If I was the lady I would be very very angry with you as you interupted a very PRIVATE moment for her. JMO.
You also should not tell your mum under any circumstance as you were in the wrong place and it would no doubt cause great embarassment to the lady. If you had of turned up at the right time they would most likely have finished their "business" and you would have been none the wiser and the lady would have been very very satisfied.
It just shows that you should never enter someone else's home without being invited.
LydiaM replied:
OMG.....the look on your face would have been Priceless lmao
Gotta feel for you all though.