Discussions : General discussion : how othe people make you doubt your own abilities.
marina wrote:
For me every week is a good week in party plan and generally I am happy.
But I had to share this particular week.
I have had 4 shows last week and from the income side of it - in 12 hours double what a corporate manager gets working full time.
( still cannot believe how well it pays)
Anyway after Friday nights show I came home down. Down because 3 women just thought they were way too good. Very unfriendly, did not say goodbye to me and just down right rude. I did sell, but very low and that is fine, it was just their attitude that really upset me. The hostesses sister was so nice and sweet and she did book a show which was good and I know that same crowd will not be there again. Thank goodness.
So I went home and did not feel my happy cheery self. It is amazing how negative people can affect the emotions of someone else.
Saturday I had 2 shows back to back and what a contrast.
Sometimes I do doubt myself and that is how i was feeling that morning ,wondering if I am going to get bookings, if they will buy all because of Friday nights show. SEE HOW NEGATIVE PEOPLE CAN MAKE YOU DOUBT YOUR OWN ABILITIES
But now I am on a complete high.
7 new bookings for the week, very stong sales and one new jeweller.
Saturdays shows were huge with 10 women buying from each show, the bookings were so easy to get and women so friendly and enthusiastic about the product. I had the best time working!!!!!!!!
one women I had asked for a show said no and then 15 minutes later changed her mind and asked me if she can have one,. ( of course you can )I said to her
This particular lady called me up on Sunday evening enquiring about the business. She signed on Wednesday evening.!!
Thank goodness the negative shows are rare because honestly I cannot handle negativity in party plan.